22. San Diego
Tyler Arenas
Wander Through My Mind

Posted: July 7st


BanksyYou are one wry little genius.

Posted: July 7th
Posted: July 7th

Most adult children of toxic parents grow up feeling tremendous confusion about what love means and how it’s supposed to feel. Their parents did extremely unloving things to them in the name of love. They came to understand love as something chaotic, dramatic, confusing, and often painful—something they had to give up their own dreams and desires for. Obviously, that’s not what love is all about.

Loving behavior doesn’t grind you down, keep you off balance, or create feelings of self-hatred. Love doesn’t hurt, it feels good. Loving behavior nourishes your emotional well-being. When someone is being loving to you, you feel accepted, cared for, valued, and respected. Genuine love creates feelings of warmth, pleasure, safety, stability, and inner peace.

Susan Forward, Toxic Parents, p381 (via femmeanddangerous)

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Posted: June 6th
"When I’m hurt, I shut down. I turn into a total sarcastic bitch. I shut off my emotions, and act indifferent towards everything even though it might be killing me inside."
And I’m sorry  (via biscuitchai)

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Posted: June 6th
Posted: June 6th


when he doesn’t love you anymore when you’re no longer young and beautiful


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Posted: June 6th
Posted: June 6th
Posted: June 6th
Posted: June 6th
Posted: June 6th
"This is the last time i addressing any of this for good. I’m upset with all the messages I’ve been receiving lately, they are trying to bring me down and my relationship. What is going on in my life is between me and Tyler. What i choose to do with my own life is my decision. Things have not been easy thus far and i don’t need more people in my ear trying to put thoughts in my head. I’m turning off all my questions so i can move forward and passed this. I appreciate all the positive message and am glad that people are looking out for me."

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